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By: Amanda

Amanda — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 17:56:25 +0000

your definatly not alone. I wish i wore a 14-16 again. lol. im in a tight 20 now :-( but am trying to get down to a 14 agin. I liked myself then bc i actually got some attention from guys and i felt like i had options. I’m 22 and know the feeling. i thin if i lose weight more people will like me. It just seems like skinny girls have it easy. but them again i guess if i was really skinny id prob want to gain a lil weight. I guess nobodys heppy with the way they are. But i am sure you are a pretty girl and dont ever settle. just keep remindingyourself you are beautiful inside and out and whoever doesent see that can just hit the curb!

By: Amanda

Amanda — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 17:49:15 +0000

Hey girl we are a lot alike. I also started dating when i was 20 and I am just now 22. I lost 60 lbs and finally got a boyfriend. We have been together for a year now and a few months a go he told me I need to lose weight or he is going to dump me. talk about stabing me in the heart. (i forgot to mention I gained back that 60 lbs this past year.) so yes i am fat. I am 250. I look less than that. Maybe 230. but still fat. When i was 190 i look about 170. I honestly do carry my weight well. But again at 250 your still fat. It pisses me off bc i think he should love me for me. And i know he does. He just says he is not attracted to me at this weight. I still wounder why he would hurt me like that. He says he didnt mean to and that he had been hinting around for a while but i wasnt getting it. I love him and I want to marry him. and i know thats the reason why he has not asked me. When i think about it alot it makes me wanna get down to like 150 and get super hot and dump him. I woundnt do that. But you know when your mad you think of crazt things you will never really do.l feel stupid sometimes for still being with him. But when you truly love someone it is hard to walk away. But i do know that i am a pretty girl. I’m probably one of the hottest 250 lbs girls around. But at 250 it seems nobody sees that except dirty old men. lol. but true. hey girl hit me back. maybe we can be friends and talk about this stuff. I want you to know i really do understand what it is like and you are a pretty girl weither or not all these stupid guys relize it or not.

By: Rachel

Rachel — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 15:25:56 +0000

Your brothers are jerks if they tell you that guys put up with more from hot girls. I’ve met those guys. You don’t want to date them, no matter what your size is!

Someone who’s actually a caring, intuitive, kind person will not care what your size is. And if someone does, that’s a good indicator that they are, well …. a jerk. I’ve always been heavy and I’ve found that most guys assume I’m desperate because of my size. Which gets them kicked to the curb. BUT there are tons of guys out there who realize I’m more fun than the ditzy hot girl and who appreciate that. A relationship should be more about spending time with the other person and enjoying it. Hot people are boring.

Sorry for the rant.

By: Alexis

Alexis — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 17:25:26 +0000

This was a great post. I’m 21 years old and I wear a size 14/16 and I feel this way. Whenever people compliment me I just feel like they’re being nice, or guys only talk to me because they are just trying to get some and they think I’m desperate. I really feel that when I lose weight more people will like me and I will be lovable. I know that’s stupid, but that’s the voice in my head. Thanks for this post though because I know I’m not alone

By: alice

alice — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 04:19:25 +0000

i feel awful! here, in brazil, fat girls are so neglected, humiliated… we have to stand jokes and prejudice

i know it’s instictive, related with sex (i mean, guys want skinny girls because they’re easier to hold, fold, throw lol), and everyone has problems to find the “soulmate” but for us is much more difficult

i had only one boyfriend when i was at college (during 3 years) and – not for a coincidence – when i met him i was thiner.. i used to starv all day long, everyday, and do exercises even when i was very tired…

we broke up because other reasons (like every relationship) and i could live alone for a rest

trouble is, since 2007, i’ve been single… and getting fat again

and now i want a guy and i can’t find anyone! nice guys are all commited or simply don’t look at me

i cannot accept being judged only for my shape… i feel depressed, i’ve low self-estim

ps. sorry for my terrible english