Yesterday I shared these photos on Facebook and Twitter:

That is the bridesmaid dress I ordered from Ann Taylor for my friends wedding.
They were having a major sale and I had to order the dress within hours to get 80% off (seriously, DEAL). I panicked because I didn’t know what size to get as I’ve never bought a dress like that or a dress from Ann Taylor. I guessed that I would be a size 14.
I worried it would be too small or fit wrong but when I tried it on it fit perfectly! It was a complete NSV for me.
It was also the first time in a while that I really, REALLY believed in my ability to do this. After stalling for so long and feeling stuck I lost my ability to believe in myself. Seeing these photos versus my fat photos made me think I can really do this because I’m already doing it. I can just keep going.
Belief in my ability to do things comes harder for me sometimes, but it just poured out right then.
I now am SO EXCITED to JUST KEEP GOING in this journey. I can’t wait to show you all the pictures of me in this dress when I’m actually in the wedding in a couple months.
So, the dress was a NSV and a motivator and a cute thing all in one. Win!


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This is awesome!! Congratulations!!
Soo proud of you and I can hear the excitement in your writing! You look beautiful and it’s always good when you can score an awesome deal too!
Anele @ Success Along the Weigh´s last [type] ..Injury progress and Food Journal 1/20-1/24
Gorgeous!!!
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This is so awesome Mary! Can’t wait to see the pictures :)
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Love it! Yay for NSV’s! :)
The dress is super pretty! Congratulations on your NSV.
I love attending weddings!
Those are great pictures please send them to me on my phone, so I can share them with all the friends at work, I am so proud of you! You are so beautiful!!
Done. Thanks mom!
longtime reader first time poster (does that make me a stalker?)…you look amazing in that dress!!!! Gorgeous…yay for NSV!
No way, not a stalker. Thanks for reading. :)
Woot! I can’t wait to see the pics from the wedding! I love that dress and its the perfect style for you!
You look GREAT. Stunning dress for a stunning gal. Not only does the dress fit you perfectly, you can also wear it to the wedding AS WELL as elsewhere. Fancy cocktail dress. Date out with Kepa. WIN :)
And what a steal. 80% off.
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Oh yeah I’m totally wearing that one again.
Cute and great color! And also great sale!
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That’s awesome! I was scrolling through my Google Reader and didn’t even recognize you – looks great!
Really? That’s actually pretty cool. :)
Glad the NSV was able to provide you with motivation :) Way to go!
You look great! Love the dress – and your deal! The black stockings could be improved on … for a total look??!! Ha. Am now back in the Bluff City myself, for a bit of time; happy to read of your happy times, always love it!!
LOL, I won’t be wearing black tights, that’s just what I had on that day for work and I was literally too excited to change that part when I just wanted to see if the dress fit or not. It wasn’t meant to be a fashion shoot, I just took pics to send my friend whose wedding I’m in to show her the dress and then I got so excited that I ended up showing the whole internet. ;)
Gorgeous and yes, you ARE doing it! :-D
BEAUTIFUL! I saw it on Instagram & thought – WOW, Mary looks amazing! :)
Jody – Fit at 55´s last [type] ..Emotional Eating & Other Stuff…
Oh you can definitely do this! You’ve come a long way and you look fabulous in hat dress!
Stunning! Great work Mary! I’m rooting for you; I know you can continue to do it!
Adorable dress! Love that it has pockets. Keep up the good work, girly!!! Lookin’ awesome!
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xoxo
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SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!! <3
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