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New Starts & Long Term Motivation

June 1, 2009 by Mary

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This new start is it! No more! No way will I regain this weight!

How many times do we tell ourselves that? How many times do we start over?

I know that in the last year I’ve told myself many times. Every time I would lose a couple pounds then put on 5 more. I had hit the evil lose and regain cycle. Gain a few then “start over” fresh with new motivation that lasted all of five minutes. Thank goodness I finally broke that cycle recently.

The depression of living at home with my verbally abusive little brother, having no money, no hope for the future made it hard to figure out my health over the last year. I gained 20-30 pounds in a year of living at home all while “trying to lose weight.” Now that is commitment, isn’t it? HA!

But I finally found hope from that situation last month. I woke up from whatever daze I have been in and I decided to make BIG changes to my life because I don’t want to live in a half alive state. Now I am working hard on losing the weight that I gained once I moved home. I am almost down 1/3 of what I gained.

This is all because I really am committed. I have to lose weight. There is no other option and I don’t want another option. I don’t want to die of a heart attack when I’m 25 either. I don’t want to spend my whole life worried about my health. I don’t want to spend a life wondering “what if?”

The difference between this mindset and what I was thinking over the last year is the time frame. I am now thinking long-term, big picture. I’m focused on making the rest of my life as amazing as possible. During the last year I was scared and focused on small time frames, trying to get through a day or a week without knowing what I was doing. When I focused on such small periods of time it was hard to remember the importance of exercise.

In the context of my entire life I realize how important exercise and eating healthy is to my overall well being. I am motivated by the fact that if I do the right things now I won’t be bed-ridden when I’m older. If I do what I should now maybe my mind won’t succumb to dementia as soon. If I do the right things now I can help myself out  for the rest of my life. Makes 30 minutes of daily exercise sound much more important when I look at it that way.

Sometimes we have to take a few false starts to get to our true starting line. I know that in the last year I had a lot of false starts and detours on my road to a healthy life. Those practices steps were confusing at the time and felt unnecessary, but they made me more able to complete my journey. No matter how many new starts we have that turn into dead ends, there is always another chance to change our lives. We can live the way we want to no matter what we have done in the past. So let’s get to it.

Filed Under: Inspiration & Motivation Tagged With: Motivation, new starts, start


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Comments

  1. Hanlie says

    June 1, 2009 at 8:33 am

    Yes, lets! You go, girl!

  2. Amanda says

    June 1, 2009 at 10:04 am

    It’s true. Sometimes the third (fourth, or fifth!) time really is a charm. :)

    Big, huge congratulations on your success so far!!

    Amanda’s last blog post..Weekly wrap-up: the good, the bad, and the little black dress

  3. Irene says

    June 1, 2009 at 12:32 pm

    And sometimes, while on the right path, it takes a temporary diversion. I have been on such a diversion for the past 3 weeks. Today my path is back on the straight and narrow.

    :)

    Irene’s last blog post..Unacceptability

  4. Merry Mary says

    June 1, 2009 at 1:09 pm

    @Hanlie
    Woot, woot!

    @Amanda
    True, and thanks!

    @Irene
    Very true. As long as that temporary diversion doesn’t turn into an all out “I’m lost and completely starting over” you are good. Glad to hear you are back on track!

  5. Sagan says

    June 1, 2009 at 2:41 pm

    Sometimes we just aren’t ready to make a change. And then, suddenly- we’re ready!

    Sagan’s last blog post..How much food is just right?

  6. Cammy@TippyToeDiet says

    June 1, 2009 at 6:54 pm

    What Sagan said. :)

    So many people have asked me what made everything finally click into place, and I never have a concrete answer. Suddenly the way was clear, that’s all I know.

  7. Merry Mary says

    June 1, 2009 at 7:04 pm

    @Sagan and Cammy
    Totally. Its odd how it all works out sometimes. Maybe we can’t explain why things fall into place at a certain time and not at others but it is so nice when they finally do!

  8. Will (4xlt) says

    June 2, 2009 at 1:29 am

    Well put, Mary! It’s funny how it seems I can never, ever willfully force myself to finally make that change and go, but somehow it always kicks in at random times.

    Will (4xlt)’s last blog post..Weekend Recap (Day 6)

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